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The bottom line is the church has it wrong-as they have had any number of things wrong in the past: ask Galileo or Luther or money lenders in general. The church does not condemn as illicit the sexual activity of married people who are unable to have children. Well, the story about "what the church has to say" by John Monczunski doesn't have it quite right. Once again, you are leading the way in presenting clear compelling journalism that unfolds another layer of the mystery of life to be contemplated by those of us who grew up in the shadow of the Dome. I have always enjoyed the high quality content of your magazine, which is the only contact from Notre Dame that has continued to resonate with me. Thank you for publishing an issue that talks about my experience with life at Notre Dame and my experience as a lesbian alumna. Since that time I have felt virtually invisible as an alumna until this summer's issue of Notre Dame Magazine. Ending this loss will require a willingness to study the facts, the humility to change one's views, and Christ-like compassion. Christ's words and a careful reading of Biblical texts, not misguided official statements, should be our guide.Ībsent change, the Church's current views on gay and lesbian issues will continue to alienate a significant percentage of each generation of young Catholics, including many capable and idealistic individuals. More important, I find the Vatican's message to be inconsistent with the central themes of the gospels.
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Nor was I disordered or immoral when I pursued studies at Oxford and Harvard, worked as a government policymaker, served 32 years in the military, helped raise two fine children, and founded a nonprofit organization that continues to benefit the nation and the world. I was not intrinsically disordered or immoral when I was student body president here at Notre Dame 50 years ago. I find it impossible to think of myself in this way. The Vatican tells me that I am "intrinsically disordered" and that I possess a "strong tendency ordered toward an intrinsic moral evil." But no amount of effort will make you a right-handed person. If you are a lefty, you can do your best to write with your right hand. I am still a gay man.īeing gay is not a choice. I was gay when I graduated from Notre Dame, 50 years ago this month. I approach this morning's topic as a gay man. The Catholic Church: How Can We Make It Just, Inclusive, and Accountable? Editor's note: The following letters were received through the magazine's React Online form and from those written or emailed to the magazine.